God is Our Competence!

Kathy Koch
March, 05 2019
Since it’s Holy Week, a post honoring Jesus Christ is in order. He’s known by many names and titles that describe his purposes and roles. Here are 50 of them. I pray you’ll read the list slowly, perhaps with your children, and think about who He is for you. I pray, mostly, that He is your Savior and Lord. That you have trusted Him to save you and to be your source of all joy and peace. I had thought of asking you to choose your favorite names or to ask your children to do this. But then I tried. It’s impossible! Because Easter is approaching, I’m drawn to Resurrection and the Life. Then Savior. Deliverer. Immanuel. Our Hope. Sacrifice. Truth. Wonderful Counselor. Every name matters because of how much Jesus matters. If Jesus isn’t your Savior and Lord, or if you’re not sure, I get that. I was once lost, too. Please take a few minutes to read “What is the Gospel?” by my friends at EvanTell. Be blessed as you get to know Jesus better through these 50 names: Advocate – “My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin. But if anybody does sin, we have an advocate with the Father–Jesus Christ, the Righteous One.” 1 John 2:1 Almighty One – “…who is and who was and who is to come, the Almighty.” Revelation 1:8 Alpha and Omega – “I am the Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End.” Revelation 22:13 Author and Perfecter of Our Faith – “Fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” Hebrews 12:2 Authority – “Jesus said, ‘All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.” Matthew 28:18 Beloved Son of God – “And behold, a voice from heaven said, “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased.” Matthew 3:17 Bread of Life – “Then Jesus declared, ‘I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty.’” John 6:35 Bridegroom – “And Jesus said to them, “Can the wedding guests mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them? The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast.” Matthew 9:15 Chief Cornerstone – “The stone which the builders rejected has become the chief corner stone.” Psalm 118:22 Deliverer – “And to wait for his Son from heaven, whom he raised from the dead, Jesus who delivers us from the wrath to come.” 1 Thessalonians 1:10 The Door – “I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture.” John 10:9 Faithful and True – “I saw heaven standing open and there before me was a white horse, whose rider is called Faithful and True. With justice he judges and wages war.” Revelation 19:11 Good Shepherd – “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.” John 10:11 Great High Priest – “Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession.” Hebrews 4:14 Head of the Church – “And he put all things under his feet and gave him as head over all things to the church.” Ephesians 1:22 Holy Servant – “…and grant that Your bond-servants may speak Your word with all confidence, while You extend Your hand to heal, and signs and wonders take place through the name of Your holy servant Jesus.” Acts 4:29-30 I Am – “Jesus said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, before Abraham was, I am.” John 8:58 Immanuel – “…She will give birth to a son and will call him Immanuel, which means ‘God with us.’” Isaiah 7:14 Indescribable Gift – “Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift.” 2 Corinthians 9:15 Judge – “…he is the one whom God appointed as judge of the living and the dead.” Acts 10:42 King of Kings – “These will wage war against the Lamb, and the Lamb will overcome them, because He is Lord of lords and King of kings, and those who are with Him are the called and chosen and faithful.” Revelation 17:14 Lamb of God – “The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him and said, “Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!” John 1:29 Light of the World – “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” John 8:12 Lion of the Tribe of Judah – “Weep no more; behold, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has conquered, so that he can open the scroll and its seven seals.” Revelation 5:5 Lord of All – “For this reason also, God highly exalted Him, and bestowed on Him the name which is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow, of those who are in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and that every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” Philippians 2:9-11 Mediator – “For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.” 1 Timothy 2:5 Messiah – “We have found the Messiah” (that is, the Christ).” John 1:41 Mighty One – “Then you will know that I, the Lord, am your Savior, your Redeemer, the Mighty One of Jacob.” Isaiah 60:16 One Who Sets Free – “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” John 8:36 Our Hope – “…Christ Jesus our hope.” 1 Timothy 1:1 Peace – “For he himself is our peace, who has made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility,” Ephesians 2:14 Prophet – “And Jesus said to them, “A prophet is not without honor, except in his hometown and among his relatives and in his own household.” Mark 6:4 Redeemer – “And as for me, I know that my Redeemer lives, and at the last He will take His stand on the earth.” Job 19:25 Resurrection and the Life – “Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die.” John 11:25 Risen Lord – “…that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures.” 1 Corinthians 15:3-4 Rock – “For they drank from the spiritual Rock that followed them, and the Rock was Christ.” 1 Corinthians 10:4 Sacrifice for Our Sins – “This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.” 1 John 4:10 Savior – “For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.” Luke 2:11 Son of Man – “For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” Luke 19:10 Son of the Most High – “He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David.” Luke 1:32 Supreme Creator Over All – “By Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities– all things have been created through Him and for Him. He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.…” 1 Corinthians 1:16-17 True Vine – “I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser.” John 15:1 Truth – “And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:32 Victorious One – “To the one who is victorious, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne, just as I was victorious and sat down with my Father on his throne.” Revelation 3:21 The Way – “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6 Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace – “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” Isaiah 9:6 The Word – “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” John 1:1

Did you read Suzanne’s blog post: Because God Has You? She did a great job of connecting purpose – Why am I alive? – to our need for competence by writing: God equips us when He calls us and if He has given you a child He has called you to His purposes. He has gone before you. He will come behind. He is the beginning and the end, the first and the last, and His promise is that He doesn’t leave you. He walks with us and when we seek Him, He says He will answer.

** Competence: What Do I Do Well?

Do you feel yourself surrounded by the love of God today? By His wisdom? By His compassion? His strength? His energy? His long-suffering? His answers? His forgiveness? His everything? Are you able to rest in Him and His provision?

In all God is and all He does, we have all we need. It’s true! I hope you know that! I hope you know the God of the Bible and His provisions. Let me repeat: In all God is and all He does, we have all we need.

Competence is defined by the question “What do I do well?” Notice the word “I.” Just as the other needs are personal, this one is, too. We all have the same five core needs, but how they’re met is individualized. You don’t need anybody else’s competence. You only need yours so you can fulfill your purpose.

Your children need YOU as their mom. God will equip you to raise your children and to fulfill the other purposes He has called you to. He has equipped you and He will equip you.

What do we rely on? Pinterest boards? Chat rooms? Parenting books? Conversations with friends? Facebook posts? Mom’s conferences? Of course! It’s okay to turn to these sources. If we didn’t think so, Suzanne, Lane, and I wouldn’t have acquired Hearts at Home in order to put on the conference we’re hoping you’ll attend in March. I’ve written books for parents and I will continue doing do.

Because this core need, like the others, is most authentically and permanently met by God, we need to rely on Him and learn from Him. One way we can do that is to make sure the people influencing us are being influenced by God. This was a huge and important shift I chose to make after getting to know God better and trusting Christ for my salvation. I stopped reading books from certain authors and publishers because I knew God was not their foundation. I wanted to be fed by God – directly through His Word and His presence – and indirectly through His people. Have you made a similar shift?

** Authentic Competence

As with the other core needs, relying on God is authentic and results in more permanent results. Remember, because He created us with these needs, He is best able to meet them.

Our competence should be met in God and His power, wisdom, love, and everything else. He fully equips us and He empowers us.

What’s the evidence now that God is meeting your need for competence? How does our reliance on Him show up?

* Do we pray and wait for answers?

* Do we credit God for answers and His leading?

* Do we turn to the Word of God when making decisions and solving problems?

* Do we read the Word when anxious and confused?

* Do we study the Word so we know it in times of need?

* Do we worship because we know and love God and enjoy experiencing Him as we worship?

* Do we attend classes to gain spiritual maturity?

* Do we value church and learn from our pastors?

* Do we serve others even when we’ve never done it before because we know God goes before us?

Did you think of other things that demonstrate you’re growing in your reliance on God? Can you picture yourself talking with your children about these ways God meets our need for competence? That will help them and help hold you accountable because their powers of observation are amazing, aren’t they?! How humbling when a child shouts, “Mommy, you didn’t pray yet!”

** God is Our Competence!

Exodus 14:14 is for you today – “The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent.”

And Deuteronomy 3:22 – “It is the Lord your God who fights for you.”

And, Philippians 4:13 – “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.”

When I share Philippians 4:13 with teens, I remind them that it’s not a t-shirt slogan. It’s a Bible verse. It’s true! Every word is true! Read it with your children, emphasizing each word as you do. “I can do….” “I can do….” “I can do…” “I can do all things …” (I love that word ALL!) “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” (Read that one again!) “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” (Yes, you! God knows you, loves you, and delights in your successes.)